pause.
Front cover (left), back (right). |
Today I received a precious gift. My husband had been collecting photographs of Fog and Lily - that much I knew - but not what he planned to do with them. "There is a parcel on its way right now!" He was so excited when he saw the tracking information this morning, so for the second day in a row I found myself waiting by the doorbell. It rang off the hook in the midst of Tristan's nap, but did not disturb him. He'd run a mile and is coming down with a head cold. He was out. This left me time to weep. Brandon isn't a man with many words when it's come to the fire, loss of my cats, and the PTSD I've struggled with. Instead he leaves me doodles of my kittens as angels and makes me smile by recalling their antics occasionally. Now this.
pause : paws : video game controller ("pause!" something I'd cry out if he was winning again)
Each page is a sentimental image that stirs my heart and memory; treasures. Moments caught in time - frozen. I don't look at images of them often because they're there when I close my eyes. Haunting and slinking.
Every day I remember them. I haven't stopped looking back, though I'm moving forward again.
Dreamy Fog sleeping on a stolen monster - I've replaced the monster, but the Fog remains irreplaceable. |
I dared, I loved, I lost.
No matter how deep the pain - the love was worth it.
Thank you, Brandon. They loved you, too. xOx.
my cats by Charles Bukowski
I know. I know.
they are limited, have different
needs and
concerns.
but I watch and learn from them.
I like the little they know,
which is so
much.
they complain but never
worry,
they walk with a surprising dignity.
they sleep with a direct simplicity that
humans just can’t
understand.
their eyes are more
beautiful than our eyes.
and they can sleep 20 hours
a day
without
hesitation or
remorse.
when I am feeling
low
all I have to do is
watch my cats
and my
courage
returns.
I study these
creatures.
they are my
teachers.
I know. I know.
they are limited, have different
needs and
concerns.
but I watch and learn from them.
I like the little they know,
which is so
much.
they complain but never
worry,
they walk with a surprising dignity.
they sleep with a direct simplicity that
humans just can’t
understand.
their eyes are more
beautiful than our eyes.
and they can sleep 20 hours
a day
without
hesitation or
remorse.
when I am feeling
low
all I have to do is
watch my cats
and my
courage
returns.
I study these
creatures.
they are my
teachers.
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